PickUp Chicks and Find Your Deeper Purpose.I just started reading David Deida's The Way Of The Superior Man (I'm only on page 20). I hope to put up a full review here at some point.
Anyway, one of his ideas seemed very pertinent to my last post. He talked about it as "burning through karma".
Basically, what he's talking about is moving from one goal to the next in a constant movement toward your life's deepest purpose. However, sometimes we are sidetracked by our "karma" and get caught up in lesser purposes. You may find some parallels in your quest for women.

