I Was Staring At Her Boobs

I met a girl with Great Boobs! Like, so great I even had to capitalize “Great” and “Boobs”. (not the photo on the left, perv.)

We were out tonight filming with the hidden camera. Another action packed night of pickup. And, I met this real cutie live in surround sound digital. The report is below, but…

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February 4th. This video will never be released to the public, for various reasons. You won’t see this on youtube. You won’t see it on your crazy file sharing thingy.
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Enough of the hype… what went down?


Well, the honest truth is that I wasn’t in a talkative mood. I just wasn’t feeling all that social. Sure, there were some hotties out, and that’s all good, but I just wasn’t keeping conversations moving. Basically, I was what they call in the scene, “low energy.”

And, as often is the case in San Francisco, most of the cuties were surrounded by guys.

So, I sat on the couch with my most excellent wingman/cameraman Sean Deacon and just chilled.

I just wasn’t inspired to chase girls. I just wanted to relax. Except… there was this one girl on a couch, leaning up on some guy real close. She was cute. I could see her boobs from a distance and of course her fun cool personality too. I liked her. I felt that drive, I felt that desire. The good stuff. And I wanted to make a move.

Now, I’m not one to mess with relationships, and I’ve never considered myself a master at competing with other guys over a girl. But, there is a game I like to play. I’ve shared this game with many guys in workshops, and I tell you… it’s fantastic. Go play this game tonight!

When you see a guy and a girl together, try to guess how they know each other. Try to guess how they met. Try to guess everything about them until you are so curious. So very damn curious… that you absolutely HAVE to talk to them. The feeling of curiosity should overwhelm any feeling of resistance to approaching. When you have that burning curiosity, you know the game is on.

Then, get out of your way, and go talk to them. Go! Open them up and find out all these great things.

Who knows… maybe they’re not together. Maybe they just met.
Or maybe they’re happily married, and doing their thing. But, if they are together, don’t stop. Find out how they met, where they met, how he attracted her, what is he doing right. This is your education.

So, I knew I was on film, and I was supposed to do something flashy and gamey and stuff, but I just stopped and cleared my mind. And, I started getting curious. So curious, I just said fuck it!

I told Sean, “I’m just gonna talk to the girl I like. Fuck it.”

Body language tight, workin’ my mojo…

And, whadya know… I misread the situation. They weren’t together. They were good friends and co-workers. Game on!

I swoop in and start to connect. This girl was cool. Very fun vibe, very cute smile. Very open and engaging.

I started off slow and low energy. But, it was working fine. We were cruising.

I snatch up the couch seat next to her and we’re getting closer. I’m telling her some intimate details of my life, and she’s listening to every word. I tell her about PickUp 101. I tell her about my mom. I tell her about living abroad.

Lots of great Kino. I reached that magic point where I felt like I was just hanging out with a girl I’m dating.

Her friends come in now and then and we all make friends together. These guys are all cool. One big happy family, and I’m taking their girl 

In the end, I do my favorite new phone routine. Some juicy new stuff I’ve been playing with.

Then, of course, the good part… I tell her that we’ve been filming, and she busts up laughing. She loves it. She waves for the camera, and everyone feels good.

Her feedback was something like “He came up to me very confidently.”
That was about the jist of it. Girls don’t say much, but it’s all good.

Anyway, it was an awesome night. In fact, to top it all off, we saw Zan walking around afterwards (he’s in town again this weekend). I love that guy.

What was the take away?… Talk to the girl you like. Even if she’s not the most “available” looking girl in the place. You never know what will happen. And oh yeah… kino kino kino… Because it feels good.

-Daniel

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