Kevin Bacon - That's me.
At least, that's what I was told tonight. It was some guy on the sidewalk selling flowers to feed his family. I gave him a dollar for his flattery. Hey, he knows how to make a man feel good. I'm so in love with my new haircut. Thank you Zip Zap.
Well, another phenomenal night.
I may have messed up my best set of the night. Or, it may have been a blessing. Not sure exactly how or when I fucked it up, but it felt good for what it was. She was an LA girl, and honestly, I didn't like her too much as a person. She had a very negative vibe and kept telling me how she hates San Francisco. But, she was damn sexy, and the sexual tension was sure there. Tall skinny Asian girl.
This was the amazing part. Her friends had "girl conference" at the end of the night. And I overheard her friends saying "You wanna hook up with this guy? It's ok. You should do it."
But, she said no! :(
I think I may have shown too much interest. This girl (and, it's not such a big deal because I don't really want girls like her)... she seemed very much like what I'd call "LA game". She had lots of game. She was good.
She responded well to the cockiness and the asshole vibe. That's all she wanted. She wanted me to be a cocky alpha dude. It became obvious when she asked my name. I said "Are we using real names or fake names?" and she said "fake names". And, this was in isolation, after she was clearly attracted. She had no desire for rapport, and she every time I complimented her, she seemed less interested in me.
I got the best response from her when she gave me a test and said "you're just talking to me because what you want to do"
I knew what she was implying, so I responded "You think I want to fuck you?"
And, she loved that. She started touching me. She was the epitome of the girl paradox: She wanted me to be the alpha dude who would pull her home and fuck her. Yet, she didn't want me to be the guy who WANTS to pull her home and fuck her. (And, girls wonder why men have to study this stuff. hmph...)
Anyway, I think I heard her mumble something about drugs too, so I'm pretty sure I came away a winner in the end. No offense to LA, but I'm a Northern Cali boy and I think I'm staying that way.
I think the other fault was in not pulling her with authority. Maybe my heart wasn't in it. She asked if there was an after party - and that was my sign to pull her the fuck out of there. But, I fucked up and said something like "kinda" or some wishy washy crap.
The other successes, I think I got 2 other numbers tonight, although maybe another girl - I can't really remember.
One was a chubby Asian girl on the sidewalk at the end of the night. Mmmm.... so cute in her little white-with-black-polka-dots mini skirt. white heels. perfectly displayed breasts. Fan - tastic! Got the digits but I think it'll be tough to make anything from it. My game was way too playerish and not smooth. But, then again, she really wants a guy like me. If the circumstances had been a little different - maybe.
My night started off superbly. Right off the bat, I got this Gorgeous blonde in a one-on-one convo. Within 2 minutes there was ass-grabbing, mad kino. This chick was so hot that I was even a little taken back. She was tipsy, and her friends were on their way out early in the night. Another LA girl, actually. So, she had to leave with the friends, but first she gave me her full glass of wine. yummy. Girls giving me drinks to start the night. I love it.
Last night started off much different and wasn't nearly as much fun. One of my first sets last night told me that I'd once freaked out on her because she wouldn't kiss me. HA! I didn't even remember the girl. Must've been a long time ago. Last night was slow and ended early.
This night had that certain juno sequa from the get go. (like my french?)
So the highlight, and probably most reliable number I got was a Jewish American Princess. Oh fun! I've never journeyed down that path. She was cute, and so full of attitude. She just really enjoyed being mean to me. And, I kinda liked it too. It was all flirting, and I called her on it:
"I'm upsetting you."
"No. You're flirting with me. And, you're not that bad at it. Could use a little help maybe."
Busted!
She does yoga on Tuesdays and helps her mom with a personal coaching business - so I'm kinda stoked about her.
And, I met all sorts of other fun people. One group of guys and girls who had read the Game, and they were all into me. "You've met those guys?!!" "It's all bullshit though, isn't it? Did that stuff really happen?"
Think some of those guys might end up as students if they know whats good for them.
And, I met a 21 year old acting student. Cory Gordon. Remember that name. (or at least, he told me to remember that name.) I felt his vibe. Very cool kid. I don't doubt that he'll make a kick ass actor some day.
And, met some students and even had a chance to give some advice. One of the guys had just finished up a 5 hour day 3 and still hadn't kissed the girl. Yikes! Guys out there reading this. Be a man, make a move! It's something that often gets glossed over in our workshops while we're busy talking about more crucial stuff. But, you guys gotta make a move. ESPECIALLY if it's a girl you like. That was his excuse, "but I really liked her, so I didn't want to fuck it up." So, let me tell you... not making a move IS fucking it up.
Alright y'all. Peace out. Sleep well.
You're friend,
Daniel
At least, that's what I was told tonight. It was some guy on the sidewalk selling flowers to feed his family. I gave him a dollar for his flattery. Hey, he knows how to make a man feel good. I'm so in love with my new haircut. Thank you Zip Zap.
Well, another phenomenal night.
I may have messed up my best set of the night. Or, it may have been a blessing. Not sure exactly how or when I fucked it up, but it felt good for what it was. She was an LA girl, and honestly, I didn't like her too much as a person. She had a very negative vibe and kept telling me how she hates San Francisco. But, she was damn sexy, and the sexual tension was sure there. Tall skinny Asian girl.
This was the amazing part. Her friends had "girl conference" at the end of the night. And I overheard her friends saying "You wanna hook up with this guy? It's ok. You should do it."
But, she said no! :(
I think I may have shown too much interest. This girl (and, it's not such a big deal because I don't really want girls like her)... she seemed very much like what I'd call "LA game". She had lots of game. She was good.
She responded well to the cockiness and the asshole vibe. That's all she wanted. She wanted me to be a cocky alpha dude. It became obvious when she asked my name. I said "Are we using real names or fake names?" and she said "fake names". And, this was in isolation, after she was clearly attracted. She had no desire for rapport, and she every time I complimented her, she seemed less interested in me.
I got the best response from her when she gave me a test and said "you're just talking to me because what you want to do"
I knew what she was implying, so I responded "You think I want to fuck you?"
And, she loved that. She started touching me. She was the epitome of the girl paradox: She wanted me to be the alpha dude who would pull her home and fuck her. Yet, she didn't want me to be the guy who WANTS to pull her home and fuck her. (And, girls wonder why men have to study this stuff. hmph...)
Anyway, I think I heard her mumble something about drugs too, so I'm pretty sure I came away a winner in the end. No offense to LA, but I'm a Northern Cali boy and I think I'm staying that way.
I think the other fault was in not pulling her with authority. Maybe my heart wasn't in it. She asked if there was an after party - and that was my sign to pull her the fuck out of there. But, I fucked up and said something like "kinda" or some wishy washy crap.
The other successes, I think I got 2 other numbers tonight, although maybe another girl - I can't really remember.
One was a chubby Asian girl on the sidewalk at the end of the night. Mmmm.... so cute in her little white-with-black-polka-dots mini skirt. white heels. perfectly displayed breasts. Fan - tastic! Got the digits but I think it'll be tough to make anything from it. My game was way too playerish and not smooth. But, then again, she really wants a guy like me. If the circumstances had been a little different - maybe.
My night started off superbly. Right off the bat, I got this Gorgeous blonde in a one-on-one convo. Within 2 minutes there was ass-grabbing, mad kino. This chick was so hot that I was even a little taken back. She was tipsy, and her friends were on their way out early in the night. Another LA girl, actually. So, she had to leave with the friends, but first she gave me her full glass of wine. yummy. Girls giving me drinks to start the night. I love it.
Last night started off much different and wasn't nearly as much fun. One of my first sets last night told me that I'd once freaked out on her because she wouldn't kiss me. HA! I didn't even remember the girl. Must've been a long time ago. Last night was slow and ended early.
This night had that certain juno sequa from the get go. (like my french?)
So the highlight, and probably most reliable number I got was a Jewish American Princess. Oh fun! I've never journeyed down that path. She was cute, and so full of attitude. She just really enjoyed being mean to me. And, I kinda liked it too. It was all flirting, and I called her on it:
"I'm upsetting you."
"No. You're flirting with me. And, you're not that bad at it. Could use a little help maybe."
Busted!
She does yoga on Tuesdays and helps her mom with a personal coaching business - so I'm kinda stoked about her.
And, I met all sorts of other fun people. One group of guys and girls who had read the Game, and they were all into me. "You've met those guys?!!" "It's all bullshit though, isn't it? Did that stuff really happen?"
Think some of those guys might end up as students if they know whats good for them.
And, I met a 21 year old acting student. Cory Gordon. Remember that name. (or at least, he told me to remember that name.) I felt his vibe. Very cool kid. I don't doubt that he'll make a kick ass actor some day.
And, met some students and even had a chance to give some advice. One of the guys had just finished up a 5 hour day 3 and still hadn't kissed the girl. Yikes! Guys out there reading this. Be a man, make a move! It's something that often gets glossed over in our workshops while we're busy talking about more crucial stuff. But, you guys gotta make a move. ESPECIALLY if it's a girl you like. That was his excuse, "but I really liked her, so I didn't want to fuck it up." So, let me tell you... not making a move IS fucking it up.
Alright y'all. Peace out. Sleep well.
You're friend,
Daniel
1 comment:
your honesty is refreshing. I know what you mean about girls you wanna date and girls you just want to fuck.
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