If you haven't seen it, it's time to take a look around. The old guy with the fine young thing. Or maybe the older woman her young piece of meat. What does age matter, really?Last night I went out on the town and ended up talking for over an hour with a woman 6 years older than me. She was cute, abs of steel, pretty face. I was all for it. Her friends were teasing her for talking to me (I look young for my age, so I guess they thouhgt it was more like 12 years difference). Fuck it. She didn't care. She told me herself: "age doesn't matter." And, of course, you know she's gonna be.. um... experienced in bed.
But, it's true. How old do you feel in your heart? How old do you act? Our bodies are one thing, but only that. There is much more to a person than his body. And, luckily for men, our bodies are even less important.
So, the night progressed, and eventually I met him. A "natural" if you will. A man who claims he could pickup any girl in the bar, and who prides himself on not wanting the sex. "It's all about playing the game. Not getting laid." For him, I believe it's true.
He was a boringly dressed European type guy in probably his mid-40s. I know, probably some guys out there are thinking "that's not old." Sure, it's all relative. In fact, I've heard stories of players in their 70s. But, this guy here could play with the best.
He swooped in on my girl and tried to steal her away. He did a pretty good job too. (Well, not good enough). I was impressed. He had balls of steel combined with a non-threatening, non-sleezy vibe. It was just relentless confidence.
I slipped him my card and told him that I teach this stuff for a living. I hope to meet him again and discover his secrets. When I reach his age, I'll probably be married with kids, but I hope I'll have the same spirit.
In fact, this is one of the great reasons to leave the house at night. I never know what I can expect when I go out. And, this was great to watch.
To top it all off, I also hit on some girls earlier in the day who happened to be super young. One girl was 18. Not necessarily too young for me, but in most cases, as in this one, her maturity just wasn't there.
If anyone out there thinks that age means anything, think again. No matter what perspective you're coming from. Older women, older men. Or younger (keepin' it legal of course). Anything is possible.
2 comments:
Good points - age factors in a lot less for guys than for women. Our maturity, confidence and presence count for a lot more than just looks.
The same can happen for a woman with maturity and high self-esteem. Although she may not be the hottest woman in the bar, she'll be much more attractive to men who know what they want because of the way she carries herself.
Dealing with age was a huge limiting belief for me. I had a hard time believing that younger were actually attracted to older men for any reason other than piles of loot.
Fortunately, this is not the case.
And I don't do anything flashy either, because I seriously salt-and-pepper, I get noticed big time.
The really cool thing is that the younger women with bad attitudes (all old guys are creepy) get screened out instantly. And the ones that like older men will approach me!
How cool is that? ;)
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